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Win an Ex Girlfriend Back by Letting Her Make the First Move

So, you want to win ex girlfriend back? How exactly can that be done with success? Let's take a close look at the example of Mark and Sarah.

Mark had asked Sarah to go to a friend's party with him one evening, but Sarah had agreed to work late that night and declined Mark's invitation. So Mark went alone. Now, whether Mark was a little too lonely or perhaps had had to much to drink, no matter what the reason, Mark made the stupid mistake of getting too friendly with one of Sarah's friends. They ended up kissing heavily and making out like teenagers. It didn't take long for that juicy bit of gossip to get back to Sarah, and Mark found himself alone.

Sarah walked out when she heard the news a few days later, telling Mark that she wanted to never set eyes on him again. Needless to say, Mark was quite distressed. He tried to apologize immediately, but Sarah was adamant when she left. Mark was distraught.

At first, Mark's instinct was to call Sarah or send her text messages or evan an email. But he held back, because he knew that Sarah would not react well to hearing from him so soon. Sarah needed time to sort through her true feelings, and waiting until she had calmed down was a better tactic than hounding her constantly. She needed space and some time to sort things out.

Mark knew Sarah well enough that, for him to win ex girlfriend back, he needed to wait for her to contact him. When she did, about a week later, her first question to Mark was to ask why he hadn't called. This gave Mark the perfect opening to give Sarah the much needed apology, couching it in the quite sensitive understanding that she needed space to think about the situation. He explained that he loved her very much and did not want to lose here, and he especially did not want to push her away by harassing her. He wanted to wait until she was ready.

Sarah, of course, was floored by Mark's thoughtfulness. He went on to apologize sincerely for acting the fool with her friend and swore that nothing like that would ever happen again. He understood that trust, once broken, is difficult to reinstate and that if she wanted, he would gladly go to couples counseling, if she thought that would help.

Sarah was moved. Mark went on to tell her how valuable he felt their relationship truly was to him by reminding her of the good times they shared and the fun that they had had together. Sarah recalled the good parts of their relationship and realized she missed that. Mark was truly on his way to win ex girlfriend back.

The point is, Mark waited until Sarah was ready to talk and did not chase her away with his desperation. To win ex girlfriend back means to play by her rules. Remember this and you'll be assured the success you seek to win ex girlfriend back.

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Author: Danny Walton

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