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What'S This New Years Hoopla?

We're undisciplined. Simple enough answer, huh? I guess this will be a short article. My experience is that we just can't seem to do what we really want to do to create our lives exactly the way we want them. That's even if we know what we want. So we celebrate the New Year with great aspirations and make resolutions to change parts of ourselves and then hope for the best. Sound familiar? Does it work? Probably not, most of the time. Well I'm here to tell you that you deserve more. But the process to really get that you deserve more is often painful and difficult. One way to speed that process up is to commit to yourself and ask for help. Let yourself receive. This may take the form of therapy, couples counseling, workshops, intensive seminars, spiritual retreats, support groups, mastermind groups, classes, etc. The process picks up dramatically when we stop trying to do it by ourselves. Whether it be other people who can teach us, support us, or whether we are connecting to a higher power within, we need to let go and turn over control! It doesn't matter what time of year it is when we get the commitment to ourselves. Time becomes our motivator. Wasting time is no longer an option. Doing it the same way year after bloody year is no longer acceptable. We want more, We deserve more, and alas We Are More!! The time is Now, and We are God! I get to choose to create and be anything I want. Why? Because I can, plain and simple! We have all the data to support what we have created up to this point. Now it's time to collect new data. So use the New Year as a barometer as to what you really want. Not as a hope you will change, but to really reflect within yourself as to what you really want to change. Then commit. Ask for help. Call me. Call other people. Ask questions. Listen. Try something different, something deeper and more profound. And get out of your comfort zone. There is hope. But it's all up to you to have the willingness. Once you turn over control, the ride begins. Try it, and experience being one with the Divine. It sure beats the most overrated holiday of the year: New Years Groundhog Day!

About the Author:

Rusty Stewart is a Quantum Leap Life Coach using Law of Attraction and Manifestation Principles. He is also an Unwavering Conscious Heart relationship coach, incorporating Harville Hendrick's Imago and David Deida's relationship stages work. As a psychotherapist in private practice, he utilizes an integrated energy approach to healing including Heart Centered Hypnotherapy, breathwork, reiki, and shamanic journeying. He also specializes in alternatives to traditional addictions recovery and designs and facilitates workshops, groups, and healer certifications. Rusty has a Ph.D. in Psychoeducational Processes and Group Dynamics and is an adjunct professor at several universities as well.

Author: Rusty Stewart, Ph.D., ACHt.